Today’s world is often referred to as fast paced, busy and chaotic. It can be described by many as a place that is overwhelming, exhausting and stressful.
As a nation we are becoming overfed and undernourished. We are overfed stress and worry and we are undernourished in areas that truly matter. This concept of being ‘overfed and undernourished’ goes far beyond any food we put on our plate. I would go as far as saying, that our country is becoming a nation of human beings that are over worked, tired and are operating continuously at maximum capacity.
What happens our minds, our bodies and our souls when we get tired, bombarded or run down? We become sick. We become fatigued. We become anxious. We become ill.
Having worked as a Pharmacist for almost a decade – I could see first-hand the frantic, stress ridden, pill popping nation that we have become. I witnessed the rising scale in antidepressants being prescribed. I saw the rise in sleeping tablets, anti-anxiety medication and stress related diseases, ranging from auto immune diseases, inflammatory disorders, skin problems, stomach disease and cancer to name a few. From behind the dispensary – I could see with my own two eyes our society crumbling into sickness and disease. I could see both young and old becoming a nation where the concept of “ease” in our lives was merely non-existent. A nation where our norm was to be “busy” and “stressed” and if you weren’t busy or stressed, then you weren’t successful.
Dis – ease, the very word meaning “a lack of ease”.
But this doesn’t have to be the way. We, as human beings have an infinite inner well of consciousness that wants to be healthy. We inherently want to be happy. We want to have inner peace. We crave to live a life that is healthy, and prosperous and rich in creativity and exhilaration. But we tend to get caught up in the rat race, we can often get stuck in a job that doesn’t fulfil us, or a relationship that doesn’t ignite us. We somehow can find ourselves living a life that is not full of “ease”. We can find ourselves feeling “stuck” or stale, and our life can lack meaning or inspiration. When this happens, we can turn to food, or alcohol or some external source to try and bring some light or life back into our lives, only to find that, this too falls short and leaves us feeling worse off than ever before.
So, what’s the solution? How can we go about finding some “ease” in our lives? How can we begin to find some meaning in our world? How can we reduce the anxiety, the stress, the overwhelming emotions that surge us on a day to day basis?
One way that helped me immensely was Yoga.
If you read my earlier article on ‘Why yoga really can be for everyone’ and the benefits behind yoga, you will know that Yoga goes far beyond just the physical. One of the main benefits that I find, and that many of my client’s experience, is the escaping healing feeling that yoga brings to one’s life.
Yoga – meaning union, unites mind with the body, and body with the soul.
In today’s world – this connection is vital. We don’t need more noise, or more busyness, or more loud music, or more adrenaline. What the world needs is more stillness. More silence. More space. More time out. More recovery. More rest. More breathing. More connection.
Yoga delivers all of the above and more.
When you get on the mat, you centre yourself. You ground yourself. You connect. To find more ease in our lives and in our world, it’s important that we first find some balance and stability within ourselves. Yoga empowers connection back to our inner world. It enables you to actually stop for a second and scan your body. Scan your emotions. Scan your thoughts. Check in with yourself and listen to your intuition.
One of the best ways to reduce stress in your life, is to give yourself a break.
In order to find some ease and relaxation in our lives we need to first stop, listen and feel. To take some time out from the busyness and connect to a space of stillness.
Yoga Breathing or Pranayama:
When you get on your yoga mat – you connect your mind and body through the breath. The breath – which is our life force energy – our Prana.
Once we engage with deep mindful breathing, we reduce the anxiety by activating our para sympathetic nervous system. This is our rest and recovery system – the opposite to our fight or flight system where we operate most of our lives from. When we engage in yogic breathing (see the simple exercise below) we reduce anxiety and nervous tension in our central nervous system.
When we are anxious – our nerve endings can become irritated and excited. They become heightened and activated, and we thus, become “on edge” and anxious and develop nervous tension and irritability. Doing this breathing along with certain yoga poses (asanas) we can calm down our entire nervous system. We activate this para sympathetic nervous system and as a result reduces our stress hormone cortisol. This reduces heart rate, blood pressure and anxiety.
Yoga breathing (pranayama) is the foundation of your yoga practice. It begins with deepening your breathing and engaging is a 3-part breath technique.
Try this simple breathing technique at least once a day for a week and observe how it affects your body, breath, and mind. This mindful exercise can be done at just about any time of day, though preferably not immediately following a large meal.
How to;
- Lie comfortably on your back (with your knees slightly bent and your feet flat on the floor) about hip-distance apart or lie in savasana (corpse pose), whichever is most comfortable for you.
- Place one palm on your abdomen and just breathe comfortably for a few moments. Notice the quality of your breath. Does the breath feel tense? shallow? rapid? strained? Simply observe the breath without trying to adjust it or change it, or without any judgment.
- Then gradually begin to relax your breathing. Slow your breath down, deepen the inhalation and try make the breath as smooth as possible.
- Begin to draw the breath in for a count of 4
- Slowly introduce a slight PAUSE after each inbreath
- Then gracefully release your breath through a nice slow relaxed exhalation to the count of 8
- So, the breathing goes something like this; inhale – count 1,2,3,4… Pause and hold for 1,2,3,4…. Exhale count 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8… Pause and hold 1,2,3,4 and repeat.
- Once the breath feels comfortable, relaxed, smooth and rhythmical, notice the movement of the body. As you inhale, the abdomen naturally expands; as you exhale, feel the slight contraction of the abdomen. To experience the pleasure of giving yourself a full, relaxed breath, gently try to actively expand the abdomen on the inhale and contract the abdomen on the exhale to support the natural movement of the diaphragm.
- Continue this breathing practice for 6 to 12 breaths.
- Check in with your body, mind, thoughts and emotions afterwards. (Have a pen and paper nearby as you may get some moments of insights or clarity afterwards)
Benefits of this deep yogic breathing
- Quietens the mind
- Calms the entire nervous system
- Reduces stress and anxiety
- Promotes restful sleep
- Improves self-awareness
- Promotes focus and clarity
- Develops inner peace
- Reduces blood pressure and can ease bodily aches and pains
- Promotes overall EASE in the mind, body and soul
- Promotes a sense of wellbeing and relaxation
Examples of some Yoga poses (asanas) that can really help with reducing anxiety and stress are the following;
- Cat/Cow pose (Marjaryasana/Bitikasana)
- Child’s pose (balasana)
- Trees pose (Vrikasana)
- Headstand or supported headstand (sirsasana)
- Corpse Pose (savasana)
- Abdominal twists
- Legs up the Wall pose (Viparita Karani)
The trinity of Yoga, meditation and mindful breathing, is just one way that can help alleviate stress and anxiety in our modern world.
It has helped me and so many of my clients. I really hope it can also help you.
Remember,
~ To find ease and flow in our lives is to find internal health and happiness ~
Namaste,
Miriam 💕💕
